The New Normal is Settling In
We're getting into something of a routine around here, so things are beginning to settle down. DH has been coming up each morning and helping in any way he can, as I get Daddy up and dressed, and we get breakfast going. Hospice has left the wheelchair, a bedside table, an emergency oxygen tank, and one of those oxygen maker machines that plugs in, for when we eventually need it. The bath lady comes out today, too. And his medicine should be coming via FedEx today, also.
We're taking turns going home for a few hours during the day, so I can take care of our Internet business and get packages ready to ship. And I can play with our cat for a bit, too. We live right down the street, so it's not that big a deal.
With all that settling down, my PD symptoms have come under control again, I'm happy to say. My only continuing problem is the lack of sleep, and I've given that long enough to get under control naturally. I'm calling the Neurologist today and see what he can prescribe, as I can't possibly continue at this rate indefinitely.
DH scrubbed and mopped the kitchen floor and brought our good vacuum cleaner up here last night, so we could give the carpets a good cleaning, too. We've got the time to do it, so we'll gradually get the house cleaned up. We've had to neglect it this last year, what with our daughter being in the hospital so much and then me being so sick. Daddy has always vetoed any suggestions at paying someone to come in and clean. Because he's blind, he really doesn't like strangers in the house, and I can understand that.
I'm not sure yet if we'll try to find some part time help to give us a day off or two, since Daddy is so uncomfortable with that. It really depends on how much we need it. We have to take care of ourselves, too, and time away from all this is part of that process.
We're taking turns going home for a few hours during the day, so I can take care of our Internet business and get packages ready to ship. And I can play with our cat for a bit, too. We live right down the street, so it's not that big a deal.
With all that settling down, my PD symptoms have come under control again, I'm happy to say. My only continuing problem is the lack of sleep, and I've given that long enough to get under control naturally. I'm calling the Neurologist today and see what he can prescribe, as I can't possibly continue at this rate indefinitely.
DH scrubbed and mopped the kitchen floor and brought our good vacuum cleaner up here last night, so we could give the carpets a good cleaning, too. We've got the time to do it, so we'll gradually get the house cleaned up. We've had to neglect it this last year, what with our daughter being in the hospital so much and then me being so sick. Daddy has always vetoed any suggestions at paying someone to come in and clean. Because he's blind, he really doesn't like strangers in the house, and I can understand that.
I'm not sure yet if we'll try to find some part time help to give us a day off or two, since Daddy is so uncomfortable with that. It really depends on how much we need it. We have to take care of ourselves, too, and time away from all this is part of that process.
Labels: "Parkinson's", care giving, Hospice, house cleaning, insomnia, Neurologist



2 Comments:
At 12/01/2006 9:59 AM ,
Ruth said...
I love the look of your blog.
Bringing in help is always a thorny issue. But if you get overly exhausted, he won't have your help at all. (Not to mention the toll on you...)
Your posts really reflect the issues involved so well - from all sides. God bless...
At 12/01/2006 10:22 AM ,
Dirty Butter said...
I'm glad you like the look around here, Ruth. It's a slightly tweaked blogger template, as I ran into more trouble than it was worth when I started trying to get too fancy.
We know from past experience that burnout is a real problem with care giving. We'll be OK for awhile doing it by ourselves, but if this continues for any length of time, some kind of respite for us will have to be arranged.
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